Find Clarity to Move Forward - Reconnect With Your True Wants
When you feel like you’re not making progress, it could be a sign that your dream isn’t fully clear yet. You may have an idea, a direction, but there are so many avenues you could go down and new things to learn that you find yourself stuck in decision paralysis.
This causes you to stop in your tracks and not get anything done. Then you feel as though nothing is happening so feelings of guilt and shame show up and thoughts of “Why am I even doing this?” come into play.
I know when this happens to me, I feel stagnant and like I’m running in circles getting nothing done. I look busy, but there is NO productivity happening.
Why Finding Clarity Matters
When I’m in this space, I allow myself to STOP and BREATHE…and maybe cry a bit. 
Then I sit with my BIG Dream and connect with why I want to do this thing. If I have a decision to make I write down the choices on separate pieces of paper, place them around me, close my eyes, center myself, and see which way my body leans.
Literally.
If I feel myself pulled to the right, I look at that piece of paper and go with that choice. If I start to question the choice, I do the process again and go for two out of three. 😝
I also remind myself that this decision isn’t set in stone. If it doesn't work out, I can always backtrack and choose the other thing…and if that other thing isn’t available then, something else will be.
Chances are that I will learn something amazing or important along the way that will clarify the path.
Your BIG Dream will continue shifting and growing as you walk along your road. You will meet people that inspire you, go through experiences that will educate you, and get to see things beyond your imagination that will show you what’s available.
How to Find Clarity to Move Forward
If you’re unclear on what your BIG Dream is, take a moment to write out all the things you love and excite you (yes, even the deep, dark nerdy geeky things that you don’t share with anyone else [especially these!]), your internal values, and the things you would like to change in your environment (home, relationships, community, world).
This practice will give you an idea of what means the most to you, who you really want to be in the world, and what would make you feel fulfilled. This is the foundation of your BIG Dream, where you start to build your world.
Then you can start to make choices that are fully in line with these things. Choices like getting rid of that really ‘classy’ painting, that you picked because it looked like an adult thing to do, in order to put up a plastic Captain America shield and Infinity Gauntlets over your fireplace because you’re NOT the Better Homes and Gardens type, you’re the nerdy, geeky Marvel Comics type and you want your environment to reflect exactly who you are. 😝
These simple little choices lead to bigger, more effective choices that shift your life into the one that you dream about, the one that fits your soul and energy, the one you can only imagine at this point.
Take Aligned Action Toward Your Dream
So, get in touch with your inner spark. Lean into your BIG Dream, as you see it now, and find the clarity that will reconnect you to what you truly want in your life. Then go DO SOMETHING! Take some small action (like switching the artwork) that will start the momentum towards achieving your BIG Dream!
You’ve taken the first step by exploring what clarity really means for you. Now, let’s turn that insight into direction. Download the BIG Dream Visualization, a short, powerful meditation designed to help you connect deeply with your inner vision and uncover what you truly want next. Let’s find your spark, light the way forward, and start turning clarity into action.